Archangel Oceana - Attorney of Loving Kindness

When people find it hard to speak up for themselves and express themselves properly they often turn to an attorney to make sure that their message is coming across clearly and sussinctly. But we don’t always have the luxury of calling up someone more eloquent. Luckily today you’ve got just the right words to say what you mean and mean what you say.

If you’re one of those people that struggle to express themselves properly today is the perfect day to have a chat with the people you care about most. You’ll be able to express your inner doubts and desires in a loving way - making the chances of misunderstanding and resentment much, much less.

Obviously some people still won’t like what you have to say - at least not right off the bat. But give them some time to come around. You can’t expect everyone to just accept your heartfelt speeches. You need to give them time to mull it over and decide on their own verdict of the situation. Of course, you can help the process along by brushing up on exactly what it means to be an attorney of loving kindness.

When being an Attorney is a Good thing

Attorneys don’t have the best reputation. They’re often labled as manpulative and sly - only keeping their clients’ best interests at heart and trying to circumvent the law. But that’s not the kind of attorney you are today.

Today you’re more cncerned with the general wellfare of everyone n your life. You’ll find yourself willing to speak up against any and all injustice. That’s because you know where you’re heading in your own life. You’re on your path and you’re feeling more secure and in control than usual. That’s making you a bit more confident than usual. So you wont be afraid to voice your opinions.

And unlike an attorney that focuses on their client, you’re more concerned with the general state of things. So you aren’t picking sides. You’re just spaking the unfiltered truth. This can upset some people, of course, but sometimes it’s good to stir the pot a bit to see what floats to the top.

Adding some Loving Kindness

But just becasue you’re speaking the unfiltered truth doesn’t mean you have to be nasty about it. A bit of compassion is going to go a long way today. After all, you catch more flies with honey - something every good attorney learns very early in their careers.

So, even if someone needs a bit of tough love today, make sure that you approach the situation with a fair amount of tact and consideration. Nobody is perfect and we’re all just trying to survive in this highly stressful world. Most people today suffer from some form of anxiety, PTSD, stress-overload, or depression. Keep that in mind before you jump down someone’s throat for reacting to a situation in a less than ideal way. Becasue if you approach them harshly you’re not being much better than they are, are you?

Prepare your Argument

Lawyers and attorneys never go to a hearing without being properly prepared. If there’s an issue that’s been looming over you for some time now, it’s a good idea to think through what you’re going to do and say. When you prepare an argument in advance, you’re much less likely to become flustered and caught up in your emotions - making it much easier to stay loving and kind.

You really shouldn’t expect that the actual conversation is going to go exactly as you planned though. That hardly ever happens. But if you have a general idea of the direction that you’d like the conversation to go you’ll be much more likely to keep your cool and remain open to the other person’s experience of the situation. Remember, your truth isn’t necessarily THE truth. So keep your heart open to the possibility that you aren’t necessarily the final judge on what should or shouldn’t be said and done.

In fact, the more open you are to hearing the other person out, the more you will be able to understand why they are acting the way they are acting. And if you can then bring your experience and their experience together, to reach a mutual understanding, you’ll find yourself feeling more accomplished than you would have if you just stormed into the conversation demanding that they accept your truth.

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